Think about your own thoughts
2019年9月29日 ペットwhen I realized what the hell I was doing.so, I responded: "They are https://www.non-standardfasteners.com taking a rest before they walk themselves into the closet!" Hee hee, I am soooooooo hilarious! Luckily, he just rolled his eyes and walked out of the room..
I restrain myself all the time. Mike smugly asked: "What are these doing here?" Well, I must say that I am very quick on my toes. I picked up the shoes and put them in the closet. While I was doing that, I realized that I was feeling sorta annoyed.. I was sorta pissed off that he even said something.. So does Mike!
Sometimes, it is about communicating and sometimes it’s about shutting the hell up! Not speaking "the truth.....
The funny thing about this form of communication is that I ACTUALLY believe that by asking him these sorts of questions, it will somehow flip some sort of mental switch in his brain and he will stop leaving crap all over the place!
The other day I left my shoes out in the middle of the living room floor.." Because much of the time "speaking the truth" is about "I am right and you are wrong and here is my proof!"
I am going to bravely assert here that the secret key to ANY good relationship is restraint!
Whaddya think? Does that hold some grain of truth for you when you think about your quality, long term relationships? The ability to know when to speak and the ability to know when to shut the hell up!
Think about your own thoughts and funny stories.. Especially compared to me..
Because I NEVER do that kind of thing!
Ya know?
To take this a step further . And yes, it’s about playfulness, and kindness and love and all that good stuff.. From milk in the cupboard to shoes in the middle of the floor (don’t ask!).
We have good communication which can go something like this: "Mike, what is this doing here?" "This" could really be anything.was wanting to start something!
Yay me for noticing this ..I am married to a fella named Mike..I started mentally listing all of the times he has left stuff out or put stuff in weird ass places that make no sense at all!!!! Let me tell ya..I would have created all sorts of havoc! So, once I shut my internal list maker off-who needs to "prove how right I am"- I realized what the secret key to our great relationship is!
I mean. Do you know when to speak and when to shut the hell up?
..the list was way long.. because, if I had launched into some sort of tyraid... We have a very good relationship based on lots of playfulness, humor and respect. because sometimes I just gotta... Because in truth (and I am so about the truth!), I didn’t like him pointing out that my shoes where on the floor.ONCE!!!! I was about to open my fabulous mouth.yes, it’s about respect.
I restrain myself all the time. Mike smugly asked: "What are these doing here?" Well, I must say that I am very quick on my toes. I picked up the shoes and put them in the closet. While I was doing that, I realized that I was feeling sorta annoyed.. I was sorta pissed off that he even said something.. So does Mike!
Sometimes, it is about communicating and sometimes it’s about shutting the hell up! Not speaking "the truth.....
The funny thing about this form of communication is that I ACTUALLY believe that by asking him these sorts of questions, it will somehow flip some sort of mental switch in his brain and he will stop leaving crap all over the place!
The other day I left my shoes out in the middle of the living room floor.." Because much of the time "speaking the truth" is about "I am right and you are wrong and here is my proof!"
I am going to bravely assert here that the secret key to ANY good relationship is restraint!
Whaddya think? Does that hold some grain of truth for you when you think about your quality, long term relationships? The ability to know when to speak and the ability to know when to shut the hell up!
Think about your own thoughts and funny stories.. Especially compared to me..
Because I NEVER do that kind of thing!
Ya know?
To take this a step further . And yes, it’s about playfulness, and kindness and love and all that good stuff.. From milk in the cupboard to shoes in the middle of the floor (don’t ask!).
We have good communication which can go something like this: "Mike, what is this doing here?" "This" could really be anything.was wanting to start something!
Yay me for noticing this ..I am married to a fella named Mike..I started mentally listing all of the times he has left stuff out or put stuff in weird ass places that make no sense at all!!!! Let me tell ya..I would have created all sorts of havoc! So, once I shut my internal list maker off-who needs to "prove how right I am"- I realized what the secret key to our great relationship is!
I mean. Do you know when to speak and when to shut the hell up?
..the list was way long.. because, if I had launched into some sort of tyraid... We have a very good relationship based on lots of playfulness, humor and respect. because sometimes I just gotta... Because in truth (and I am so about the truth!), I didn’t like him pointing out that my shoes where on the floor.ONCE!!!! I was about to open my fabulous mouth.yes, it’s about respect.
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